Late 20's & Single... So What?

You will attract only what you are focused on. This is something I read somewhere and I felt it. When you find yourself in a situation where you feel like you would have wanted to be in an another one, our mind and thoughts start to play lots of tricks in our head. Being single especially in your late 20's sometimes can make you feel some type of way where you would have wanted to share your life with a partner. And it is always during your single period you see lots of couples just flaunting around you like an endless marketing tv commercial.

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Single or taken? Who cares, I'm awesome!

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However, being single in your late 20's can and should be seen as a way for you to really enter into real life. You get to experience things on a different level, and learning them alone as your own life lessons are a really good thing. Don't get me wrong, having a partner to share things with him/her is the best thing and it is obviously the goal we wanna reach. While this moment happens, how about enjoying this single period of yours? Here are 5 reasons for you to enjoy being single during your late 20's. Also this applies for any stage of your life anyway!

You Get To Know Yourself Better (Find out who you are!)

This is the time to figure out who you are, who you want to be as a person and where you want to be. In your late 20's you enter into real life, you get to find out about things about yourself that you never knew such as things that you might love or grew out of love, things that you can't tolerate anymore or you can kinda tolerate now and so much more. This moment of being by yourself is the time to define who you are as a person, how you want to be perceived in society (focus on your career and goals, build your financial stability) and most of all it's the time to fall in love with yourself first. Loving yourself first will help you be the person you need to be for your future partner. Read You Are A Badass by Jen Sincero.

You Get To Meet New People!

Being single is the best time to meet new people. You get to experience new types of friendships, you acquire new tastes and wants when it comes to choosing a partner. Actually, you go thru a series of different types of meetings in your late 20s and you also find out that things ain't always as simple as they look. So take the time to enjoy this moment of encountering new people and learn from what you'll experience.

You & You Alone Control Your Schedule

At the level of where you're at right now as a grown person, nobody can control your schedule other than you (whether in a relationship or no). However, when being single you have more freedom to do whatever you want without accommodating somebody else or wondering if you need some type of approval before doing something.

You Get To Step Out Of Your Comfort Zone!

Being in my late 20s and single really helped me step out of my comfort zone way more than before. I get to decide to try out new things I never knew I could do, I go on different dates, have some fun, discover new places and enjoy myself as the woman that I am. Being single in this time of your life is the best moment to get out and do things that maybe scared you before, maybe observe life with another perspective? Why not?

The Sex Is So Much Better!

We don't talk to much about sex and everything around however, let me tell you something, the sex gets so much better! The more you grow up the more you experience things sexually with different people. You get to find out things about yourself overtime on what you like or dislike and more. This is the moment to enjoy and learn about yourself sexually. Use this time to try out new kinky things, read books on anatomy (read Blow Him Away by Marcy Michael & Marie Desalle), get yourself some fun toys to play with (here's a list of the best Sex Toys for women) and more. Find out your pleasure and let future bae enjoy this pleasure with you.

Overall, being single is not always a fun thing. Dont get me wrong I love Love, but in the meantime while I am single, I will be enjoying the things that will make me happy and I encourage you to do the same. Do not stay in your comfort zone or bubble and push everyone away, on the the contrary, step out, be radiant, attract, love and most of all again, LOVE YOURSELF before loving someone else.

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